I’ve always romanticized the idea of owning a horse. I’ve also always romanticized the idea of owning a boat. Then I think about the reality of either — the maintenance, the logistics, the scheduling, the constant attention — and the fantasy starts feeling overwhelming.
Oddly enough, owning a vacation home has never felt that way to me.
Yes, there’s maintenance. But somehow it feels manageable. Worth it, even. Instead of creating stress, it creates relief. And unlike horses and boats, vacation homes in markets like Harbor Country have historically held their value while you build memories in them.
For a long time, I’ve told renters to take their time. Learn the rhythms of the area. Figure out whether you want walkability or privacy, a big summer-hosting house or a screened porch and a bike. Renting first is smart. I still believe that.
But here’s what I’m seeing now: I have people calling me every single week asking if I can help them find a summer rental in Harbor Country. I don’t handle rentals — I always point them to the local rental companies — but the message coming back from those companies is the same: there’s nothing left. The renters who told themselves “just one more summer” are the ones who can’t get in the door this season.
The market is telling them something. And if you’ve been renting here for three, four, five summers, it’s probably telling you the same thing.
You already know the towns. You know which beach feels like yours. You know whether you want Union Pier’s quiet or New Buffalo’s energy. You know how your friends settle in around your table here in a way they don’t anywhere else. At some point, that stops being a getaway and starts being where your favorite version of life keeps happening.
Ownership today is also lighter than people imagine. Local house managers can stock the fridge before you arrive, coordinate cleaning, check on the property, and prep for guests. You don’t need a full operation to make a second home work.
So if you’ve been waiting for the “right time,” I’d gently suggest: the right time was the summer you first thought about it. The next-best time is now, before another season slips past while you’re still searching for a rental.
If you’ve been renting here and you’re ready to talk, I’d love to help you find the place that’s been waiting for you.
And maybe — once you’re settled in — you’ll finally be ready for that horse. Or the boat. (I’ll stick with the house.)